A commune or a cult would be better than this circus lol

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    1 year ago

    Not really, no. The idea of living in a small community makes me feel nauseous and panicky, and the more remote the commune the more intense the aversion.

    But I wouldn’t mind some sort of arrangement between some others who also like the idea of being off-grid but who loathe the idea of being in a small community, where we’d be off in the wilds with a LOT of space between us, but still come together occasionally to help each other out with various things, or be available be radio or whatever.

    Similarly, the idea of being part of a nomadic group seems quite appealing to me, especially if more people join along the way and others dip in and out.

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    1 year ago

    I don’t come anywhere near close to meeting the requirements for intentional communities. Chronic illness is a real bastard. I don’t need much and the quality of my life could so easily be improved by just a little help from others, but everyone - even intentional communities - is caught up in focusing on how much others can help them. What I can give is less tangible, and therefore dismissed.

    I don’t want to abandon society but I do recognise we’d all be far better off if we lived in ways which were less isolating. Every person/family for themselves harms us all.

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    1 year ago

    Already planning on it here in Canada once my friends and I have the money for what we want to do.

    Farming (+greenhousing) and some cottage rentals on the side.

    Peace out, modern society!

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      Cottage rentals for income?

      Currently my plan is to get far enough into my career that I can spend half my time in city making money and half in the woods

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        1 year ago

        Exactly, cottage rentals for income. To supplement farming and other ventures, anyway.

        I’m lucky that my work is 99.9% remote, so as long as I can acquire a stable internet connect I can continue to work out there if needed. Existing entirely in the woods is incredibly appealing.

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          I like that idea. Continuing to make money, no matter if it’s just a few hundred dollars a month, is the main hurdle for me to leave. You’d still need to finance construction but it’s a good long term vision.

          I am worried about fire seasons/smoke seasons. At best it shortens the tourist season and at worst I lose everything : /

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            1 year ago

            Yeah, that lack of startup capital is why I’m not doing it already. A bunch of us are saving to pool money together to self-finance. You can also just start with a couple of nice trailers (which you wouldn’t be able to charge as much for, of course) and gradually work towards full cottages. Some cottages in areas I frequent around here are just trailers and are still going for like $300 CAD a night in the middle of September.

            At least insurance should protect you against total loss?

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    1 year ago

    My dad did it back when he was a hippy.
    He still talks very fondly of the time he spent out in the Arizona desert all those decades ago.

    A piece of me would like to drop out of society and live in solitude.
    While I lean towards being a loner, I realized that I am probably mostly a hybrid.
    I enjoy some human interaction, but also love being alone to do whatever the fuck I want.
    To me a commune would be too intimate and I think would end up being like a small town type of scenario which doesn’t appeal to me.

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    If I were younger I’d be looking at Mexico. Elevation and arable land can be found. Aboriginals would have survived if not for guns. And I think it will be a long time before the US ruins them like they do all over the world. I believe you can pretty much survive with 1acre per person in the commune. At least according to Fukuoka Masanobu.

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    Very often I would like to abandon my life in reality and become a part of an ideal world which I have imagined. It is surprisingly easy to become part of a rural cult (look up “intentional communities”) so it’s a backup plan I have in mind if necessary, but with people we’re going to be dealing with a different version of the same set of issues. We as a species are nuts.

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        1 year ago

        I used to live in a housing co-op and loved it. That being said you are going to have to deal with people intimately in that kind of living situation, so quality of life is greatly influenced by how well you mesh with the others around and things can change.