• xmunk@sh.itjust.works
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        19 days ago

        As a man I’ve interviewed in a button down shirt, a skirt and open toe sandals and gotten a job offer. Only assholes and IBM require a suit and tie these days.

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          19 days ago

          Open-toed sandals with a skirt and button down shirt? If you can’t take fashion seriously, how can I expect you to do your job? Business, business, calves, and then exposed toes? How am I supposed to focus on my job when you do things like that?!

      • CarbonIceDragon@pawb.social
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        19 days ago

        Unpopular opinion: I think jeans are honestly more comfortable than pajamas. Pajamas feel a bit too loose and airy somehow, jeans and a t shirt or something feel a bit closer and thicker and give a reminder that something is between your skin and the outside while still being soft.

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            19 days ago

            Stretchy jeans are infinitely better than classic denim, give them a try before writing off jeans forever.

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          19 days ago

          Pajamas for the weekend, sweat pants for the work week, jeans for going out, and suits for weddings and funerals.

    • Angry_Autist (he/him)@lemmy.world
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      19 days ago

      To some of us, no clothes are comfortable.

      Sensory issues are a sonofabitch and literally no neurotypical will ever have sympathy.

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          19 days ago

          You know this is literally harassment but the mods won’t see it that way, and if I respond to you like I REALLY want to, I’ll be the one with the ban.

          I think you know this and are doing it on purpose.

            • Angry_Autist (he/him)@lemmy.world
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              19 days ago

              No, I’m angry because I was born with EDS and am medically angry nearly all of the time and it’s largely untreatable.

              I’m angry at you SPECIFICALLY in the MOMENT for your mockery.

              The only confusion is why people like you are so magnificently dedicated to being such assholes to the mentally different and pretending its no big deal.

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          19 days ago

          haha another neurotypical mocking me for something I have zero control over that makes my life miserable lemmy is so supportive and inclusive.

          And all of you ask why I am so angry all the time.