I have a close friend group and several non related friends who I’d say I know a lot about and vise-versa. With the group, certainly some more than others.
When hanging out with people I often find the most satisfying activity is to just chill, talk, and get to know each other better; pick their brain to see how their views differ from mine or are the same. Often an easy thing to do when we’re low on energy too
In the wise words of Scatman John: I wanna be a human being, not a human doing