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  • Wisely@lemmy.worldtoAsklemmy@lemmy.mlSo, on pronouns.
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    1 year ago

    Bringing up pronouns as a straight man can become counterproductive because it just riles up the right to go after trans people.

    Really it’s all about respect and situational awareness. If you are in a generally liberal area, working with the LGBT community, have trans people around, etc then go for it. But if you are around a bunch of maga guys and nobody is trans don’t bother.

    The purpose of saying pronouns is to create an environment where people feel safe to casually say whatever pronouns they feel like. Normalizing it so it isn’t a big deal.





  • Wisely@lemmy.worldtoAsklemmy@lemmy.mlHow to be less racist/bigotred?
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    1 year ago

    In your case as a discriminated minority this is a natural defense mechanism. You are going to be on the alert for people who based on demographics are more likely to be hostile towards you based on past experiences and trauma.

    Some countries are much more hostile towards anyone lgbt than others so unfortunately those views might carry over.

    What you can do is be aware of the bias. Don’t let your guard down until you get to know the person. Don’t let their race or nationality prevent you from getting to know them. If they prove to be discriminatory or dangerous then it’s healthy to set boundaries. You don’t need to feel guilty for not liking an individual person who is actively discriminating against you.