I never understood that either. I am judged a lot but then I see someone who others consider judgeworthy and I don’t think I’ve ever not asked “why am I to judge this person again”. By definition, I cannot blame those who try their best.
They’re all narcissists. Every human being who has not been traumatized is a narcissist; only trauma can drive out narcissism. Trauma rubs people’s faces into their own mortality; only knowing their own mortality can humble them enough to get over themselves.
I never understood that either. I am judged a lot but then I see someone who others consider judgeworthy and I don’t think I’ve ever not asked “why am I to judge this person again”. By definition, I cannot blame those who try their best.
They’re all narcissists. Every human being who has not been traumatized is a narcissist; only trauma can drive out narcissism. Trauma rubs people’s faces into their own mortality; only knowing their own mortality can humble them enough to get over themselves.
Is that to say innocence doesn’t exist?